The end of chapter 2
I just read this: As someone who knew me during the dark days, Simone even suggested that I had found my heart's calling. "You needed something to propel you out of your survival story, Jane," she said. "It wasn't working for you. You didn't know how powerful you are on a universal level..." So naturally, I cried. But it was okay because only moments before I read, "I've never been a crier. But when the heart is this full, it must overflow." The words come from an article by Jane Ganahl about her calling to rescue cats--a topic I'm not particularly passionate about, but pulled relentlessly on my heart strings. As I read the first quote I mentioned, I placed my hand over my heart and wept. And I thought, that's me. That's me, with people. People are my cats.
I rarely claim to do things well. Which, I suppose, is befitting because my motto in life is do less, well. However, I an excellent writer and I am an excellent listener. When I listen to a person its a spiritual experience, much like my writing process. I've learned not to close my eyes, though that would be my preference, and its like I plug in to right now. I hear things sometimes that I do not call attention to. I used to say I'm not sure the other person was ready for it to be spoken. Though, I think it may also be that I am not. Ready, or willing. Because see, when you call people out on an intangible "truth" they can easily deny it. Then my ego takes a mighty blow. Whap! Right across the jaw. That'll teach you to meddle. And then I shut up.
But this past week as I was writing a paper for a class I have with Cheryl (my advisor), I found myself accidentally telling the truth. After I submitted I remember thinking, I don't know what she's going to say about that... that paper is the first assignment I've had since Zachary's very accurate accusal of leaving myself out of my work. As I sat to write, I felt like I do when I'm here writing. In a zone, a trance and at total peace. I had a short conversation with myself in my head: Ego: Cheryl said specifically, don't copy one of your blog posts, but here you are blog writing. Self: academic me, blogger me, same-same.
So, I wrote that. I wrote that my goal in life professionally is to not lose my Self in this world of academia. I cited some authors but wrote that I wasn't sure yet who all I wanted to study, but as I live I'll know. And after it was done I said to Cheryl (in my head) give it the grade you think it deserves, but I didn't complete that assignment for you. I did it for me, so it had to be my way. I am at peace with that. All is well with my soul.
And so it seems this PhD journey just got a bit more interesting. There has definitely been a shift, a shift since this summer. A shift since the kundalini. And a calling out by Zachary, but not in a superficial way. He literally called me out of hiding. The space that used to feel safe and secure now feels restrictive and confining. He called me OUT. He pulled me out of my survival story.
So begins the next chapter...